Saturday, August 07, 2004


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Friday, August 06, 2004

"To err is human, to forgive is Divine."

some times when i think about the word forgive , i wonder is it possible to forgive totally?
i often try to forgive the person who wronged me at that moment of time but my mind will keep on repeating that scene and it feels like you didnt forgive that person despite i think i do, making me feel that i am very petty. but eventually when time passes and i am reminded about that moment , i would shrug and laugh at those incidents.

i went online and found some inspirational quotes,though it sound very "chim", it answers most of my questions.haha , whoever the writer, forgive me for plagiarising your works :)

"To err is human, to forgive is Divine."

Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself. It is not something you do FOR someone else. It is not complicated. It is simple.
It dares you to imagine a better future, one that is based on the blessed possibility that your hurt will not be the final word on the matter. It challenges you to give up your destructive thoughts about the situation and to believe in the possibility of a better future.

When you feel that forgiveness is necessary, do not forgive for your "their" sake. Do it for yourself! It would be great if they would come to you and ask forgiveness but you must accept the fact that some people will never do that. That is their choice.

The hurts won't heal until you forgive! Recovery from wrongdoing that produces genuine forgiveness takes time.
Non-forgiveness keeps you in the struggle. Being willing to forgive can bring a sense of peace and well-being. It lifts anxiety and delivers you from depression.
As life goes on and you remember, then is the time to once again remember that you have already forgiven. Mentally forgive again if necessary, then move forward. When we allow it, time can dull the vividness of the memory of the hurt; the memory will fade.